{"id":7089,"date":"2018-12-02T04:02:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-01T16:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/blog-birth-parent-2-letter-from-a-birth-mother\/"},"modified":"2020-01-04T08:24:50","modified_gmt":"2020-01-03T20:24:50","slug":"carta-de-una-madre-biologica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/es\/letter-from-a-birth-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta de una madre biol\u00f3gica"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><em>por Latoya Sinclair <\/em><\/h3>\n<p style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">El 24 de julio es el cumplea\u00f1os de mi hijo. Este a\u00f1o cumpli\u00f3 7 a\u00f1os y me duele porque s\u00e9 que ya no es s\u00f3lo un beb\u00e9, sino un ni\u00f1o grande que est\u00e1 creciendo hacia su propia personalidad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">Lo que me duele es que no puedo escuchar su voz; No he o\u00eddo c\u00f3mo suena desde que ten\u00eda dos semanas. S\u00e9 que se tomaron decisiones y elecciones, y aunque no estaban arraigadas en la conciencia, todav\u00eda ayudan a moldear el presente hasta convertirlo en lo que es hoy.<\/p>\n<p style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">Si pudiera volver a las manos del tiempo har\u00eda muchas cosas diferentes, sin embargo la realidad me dice que no puedo. En este punto, depende de m\u00ed sacar lo mejor de una situaci\u00f3n que est\u00e1 fuera de mi control. No me malinterpreten, la adopci\u00f3n puede ser una elecci\u00f3n feliz y maravillosa para dos partes que est\u00e1n arraigadas en la conciencia de la decisi\u00f3n. Cualquiera que diga que la adopci\u00f3n es la elecci\u00f3n perfecta para todos los involucrados no ve el panorama completo. Cuando dos grupos de personas que no han sanado viejas heridas se ven obligados a unirse bas\u00e1ndose en las circunstancias y los ideales externos, entonces se est\u00e1 gestando una mezcla problem\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n<p style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">Es por eso que apoyo servicios de adopci\u00f3n como Spence-Chapin para que sigan adoptando los derechos de los padres biol\u00f3gicos. Por favor no nos dejes fuera de las conversaciones de adopci\u00f3n. Necesitamos todos los servicios y apoyo que podamos obtener y necesitamos que se nos incluya. Muchas veces escucho a personas de la comunidad de adopci\u00f3n decir que tienen miedo de lastimar a las primeras madres al abrirles una invitaci\u00f3n a eventos de adopci\u00f3n, pero esto es lo que se necesita para cerrar la dolorosa brecha que sienten muchos padres biol\u00f3gicos. Para muchas de las mujeres que se dicen madres biol\u00f3gicas, si se las invita e incluye en la conversaci\u00f3n, la comunidad de adopci\u00f3n en su conjunto ver\u00e1 un cambio sanador positivo. Somos m\u00e1s fuertes como comunidad que como individuos, por lo que debemos acoger y trabajar en armon\u00eda con todos los que est\u00e1n relacionados con la adopci\u00f3n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Latoya Sinclair July 24th is my son\u2019s birthday. He turned 7 this year and it pains me because I know he is no longer just a baby, but a big boy who is growing into his own personality. 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