{"id":7132,"date":"2019-03-26T03:51:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-25T15:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/blog-category-journey-of-strength-and-hope-a-birth-and-adoptive-moms-story\/"},"modified":"2020-01-08T05:23:19","modified_gmt":"2020-01-07T17:23:19","slug":"viaje-de-fuerza-y-esperanza-una-historia-de-madres-biologicas-y-adoptivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/es\/journey-of-strength-and-hope-a-birth-and-adoptive-moms-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Viaje de fortaleza y esperanza: la historia de una madre biol\u00f3gica y adoptiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

El presente<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Jacqui adopt\u00f3 a una hermosa ni\u00f1a llamada Carina a trav\u00e9s de Spence-Chapin en agosto de 2018. Cuando le pregunt\u00e9 a Jacqui por qu\u00e9 eligi\u00f3 trabajar con Spence-Chapin, dijo que le presentaron a Spence-Chapin por primera vez como una madre biol\u00f3gica que buscaba asesoramiento y apoyo para muchos. hace a\u00f1os que. Y despu\u00e9s de encontrar finalmente este apoyo, supo que se trataba de una organizaci\u00f3n en la que pod\u00eda confiar para tratar a los padres biol\u00f3gicos con respeto. Como futura madre adoptiva, no s\u00f3lo pod\u00eda imaginar cu\u00e1l ser\u00eda su proceso de adopci\u00f3n, sino tambi\u00e9n qu\u00e9 ser\u00eda lo mejor para una madre biol\u00f3gica.<\/p>\n

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Hace tres d\u00e9cadas<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Jacqui, embarazada inesperadamente a los 17 a\u00f1os, pudo ver que el camino por delante no iba a ser f\u00e1cil. Criada en un hogar cat\u00f3lico estricto con cuatro hermanos, sab\u00eda que la noticia sorprender\u00eda a sus padres. En la comunidad donde viv\u00eda, los ni\u00f1os nacidos fuera del matrimonio eran menospreciados, al igual que las madres solteras adolescentes. Si bien su padre le sugiri\u00f3 en voz baja que interrumpiera el embarazo, su madre le dej\u00f3 claro que si decid\u00eda criar al beb\u00e9, estar\u00eda sola. "Bueno, ahora eres un adulto", record\u00f3 que le dijo su madre. Sintiendo que ten\u00eda que tomar la decisi\u00f3n sola, se tom\u00f3 un tiempo para sopesar sus opciones.<\/p>\n

\u201cA medida que me qued\u00e9 embarazada, me di cuenta de que amaba a este ni\u00f1o y quer\u00eda que tuviera una buena vida, pero no pod\u00eda d\u00e1rsela\u201d, recuerda Jacqui. A partir de ese momento, Jacqui comenz\u00f3 a considerar la adopci\u00f3n y a crear la vida que quer\u00eda para ella y su hijo. \u201cLlam\u00e9 por tel\u00e9fono y en unos momentos, 3 o 4 llamadas despu\u00e9s, encontr\u00e9 una casa de maternidad que me iba a acoger\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n comenz\u00f3 a trabajar con un abogado de adopci\u00f3n para ayudarla a encontrar una familia para su beb\u00e9. Sin embargo, el trato que recibi\u00f3 de su abogado y su esposa no la hizo sentir empoderada ni respetada. Cuando no le gust\u00f3 la primera familia que le presentaron, dejaron muy claro su descontento con ella.<\/p>\n

\u201cYa me sent\u00ed avergonzada y record\u00e9 que la trataron mal como madre biol\u00f3gica\u201d, dijo Jacqui.<\/p>\n

El abogado le present\u00f3 otra familia que sab\u00eda que ser\u00eda su \u00fanica otra opci\u00f3n. Le gust\u00f3 que compartieran los antecedentes de su hija (mexicana y cauc\u00e1sica) y que hubieran criado a una hija que parec\u00eda brillante y talentosa. El d\u00eda que dio a luz, los padres adoptivos corrieron inmediatamente hacia la beb\u00e9 y apenas la miraron. Si bien Jacqui no estaba al tanto de la adopci\u00f3n abierta en ese momento, pidi\u00f3 recibir fotograf\u00edas de su hijo. La familia estuvo de acuerdo, pero las fotos nunca llegaron. Pasar\u00edan 23 a\u00f1os antes de que finalmente pudiera volver a ver a su hijo.<\/p>\n

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Paternidad<\/strong><\/h3>\n

A la edad de 41 a\u00f1os, Jacqui decidi\u00f3 que estaba lista y ansiosa por criar un hijo. Luego de una p\u00e9rdida devastadora durante su segundo trimestre de embarazo, comenz\u00f3 su camino hacia la adopci\u00f3n. Despu\u00e9s de haber tenido una mala experiencia con el abogado de adopci\u00f3n como madre biol\u00f3gica, supo que quer\u00eda ir a una organizaci\u00f3n de adopci\u00f3n sin fines de lucro y eligi\u00f3 a Spence-Chapin.<\/p>\n

Esta vez, Jacqui comprendi\u00f3 plenamente la adopci\u00f3n abierta y todos los beneficios que tendr\u00eda para ella, su hijo y la madre biol\u00f3gica. Se hab\u00eda reunido con su hijo biol\u00f3gico cuando \u00e9l ten\u00eda 23 a\u00f1os y hab\u00eda visto lo importante que hab\u00eda sido para \u00e9l finalmente ver a alguien que se pareciera f\u00edsicamente a \u00e9l. Como Jacqui tiene una adopci\u00f3n abierta con la madre biol\u00f3gica de Carina, se siente agradecida de que su hija crezca con este conocimiento desde que naci\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ahora que Jacqui lleva cerca de 7 meses con su hija, su rostro se ilumina cuando habla de la maternidad. \u201cNo sab\u00eda cu\u00e1nto me encantar\u00eda ser mam\u00e1\u201d, reflexiona. \u201cMe ENCANTA absolutamente ser mam\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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Reflexiones<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Hacia el final de nuestra charla, Jacqui dudaba en ofrecer su consejo, pero sent\u00ed que con su perspectiva \u00fanica como madre adoptiva y madre biol\u00f3gica, no pude resistirme a presionarla para que me diera algunas palabras de sabidur\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Como madre biol\u00f3gica, dijo: \u201cOjal\u00e1 me hubieran tratado mejor como ser humano. Este mundo est\u00e1 cambiando y no necesitamos sentir verg\u00fcenza por nada de lo que hemos hecho. Podemos sentirnos orgullosos de nosotros mismos\u2026 Sentirnos c\u00f3modos con nosotros mismos y luego tomar la mejor decisi\u00f3n para ese ni\u00f1o. Sepa que usted es quien hace el mayor\u00eda<\/em> decisi\u00f3n importante en la vida de su hijo, porque t\u00fa<\/em> est\u00e1n decidiendo qui\u00e9n va a criar al ni\u00f1o... Adem\u00e1s, mire el panorama m\u00e1s amplio... mire hacia el futuro y piense: '\u00bfC\u00f3mo ser\u00e1 mi decisi\u00f3n? \u00bfQu\u00e9 debo hacer? desear<\/em> \u00bfQu\u00e9 aspecto tiene?<\/p>\n

No se me ocurre mejor idea para terminar y compartir en el Mes de la Historia de la Mujer.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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