{"id":7182,"date":"2015-10-07T03:00:20","date_gmt":"2015-10-06T15:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/blog-international_adoption-can-we-do-this\/"},"modified":"2019-12-17T09:06:33","modified_gmt":"2019-12-16T21:06:33","slug":"podemos-hacer-esto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/es\/can-we-do-this\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPodemos hacer esto?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00bfC\u00f3mo se relaciona esta pregunta que todos los padres afrontan con la crianza de un ni\u00f1o mayor?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inevitablemente, todos los padres llegan a un momento en el que se preguntan: \u201c\u00bfPodemos hacer esto?\u201d. Puede ocurrir antes de que llegue el ni\u00f1o. Puede ocurrir cuando el ni\u00f1o est\u00e1 creciendo. Puede ocurrir si el ni\u00f1o es biol\u00f3gico. Puede ocurrir si el ni\u00f1o es adoptado. Puede ocurrir durante \u00e9pocas f\u00e1ciles y felices. Puede ocurrir cuando hay tormentas que superar. Puede ocurrir una vez. O puede ocurrir todos los d\u00edas. Inevitablemente, ocurrir\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Las preguntas que a menudo escuchamos de los futuros padres incluyen:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00bfPodemos hacer esto? \u00bfPodemos adoptar? \u00bfPodemos criar a un ni\u00f1o que no se parezca a nosotros?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfPodemos criar a un ni\u00f1o mayor? \u00bfY a un ni\u00f1o que naci\u00f3 en otro pa\u00eds?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa si ha vivido un trauma? \u00bfPodr\u00e1 ese ni\u00f1o entender que lo amamos?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00bfSeremos? <em>capaz <\/em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo capear esas tormentas?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sabemos que existen ciertos traumas que pueden acompa\u00f1ar la vida en el sistema de bienestar infantil, ya sea a nivel nacional o internacional. A veces, la separaci\u00f3n de la familia biol\u00f3gica es en s\u00ed misma el evento traum\u00e1tico y, a veces, ese trauma solo se percibe m\u00e1s tarde. El conocimiento de que esto es una posibilidad para su hijo puede causar preocupaci\u00f3n a los padres. Puede hacer que los padres que est\u00e9n considerando la adopci\u00f3n internacional o de un ni\u00f1o mayor se hagan la misma pregunta que otros padres se hacen todos los d\u00edas: &quot;\u00bfPodemos hacer esto?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>En Spence-Chapin, brindamos a las familias los recursos necesarios para tomar una decisi\u00f3n informada y adecuada para cada familia. Ayudamos a las familias a llegar a la respuesta a esa pregunta inevitable y brindamos apoyo continuo, ya que es probable que esa pregunta vuelva a surgir, y eso est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqu\u00ed se pueden encontrar algunas lecturas esenciales y \u00fatiles sobre la adopci\u00f3n de ni\u00f1os mayores:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Nuestros propios padres: adopci\u00f3n y crianza de ni\u00f1os mayores<\/em> Por Trish Maskew<\/li>\n<li><em>Criando a un ni\u00f1o herido: ayudando a las familias adoptivas a sanar y crecer<\/em> Por Gregory Keck<\/li>\n<li><em>La crianza de un hijo adoptado internacionalmente: desde las primeras horas juntos hasta la adolescencia<\/em> Por Patty Cogen<\/li>\n<li><em>La herida primaria: comprender al ni\u00f1o adoptado<\/em> Por Nancy Newton Verrier<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Para obtener m\u00e1s informaci\u00f3n sobre nuestros programas de adopci\u00f3n nacionales, internacionales y de ni\u00f1os mayores, comun\u00edquese con el Equipo de Adopci\u00f3n al<strong> 212-400-8150<\/strong> o <strong><a href=\"mailto:info@spence-chapin.org\">info@spence-chapin.org<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Para programar una consulta previa a la adopci\u00f3n o si desea obtener m\u00e1s informaci\u00f3n sobre nuestros servicios de apoyo y asesoramiento para la adopci\u00f3n, comun\u00edquese con el Centro de Familia Moderna de Spence Chapin al <strong>646-539-2167<\/strong> o <strong><a href=\"mailto:info@spence-chapin.org\">info@modernfamilycenter.org<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How this question all parents face relates to parenting an older child Inevitably there is a \u201ccan we do this?\u201d moment for parents\u2014all parents. 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