{"id":7090,"date":"2017-11-14T05:45:00","date_gmt":"2017-11-13T17:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/blog-things-never-to-say-to-a-birth-mom\/"},"modified":"2019-12-17T07:19:42","modified_gmt":"2019-12-16T19:19:42","slug":"things-never-to-say-to-a-birth-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/yue\/things-never-to-say-to-a-birth-mom\/","title":{"rendered":"\u6c38\u9060\u5514\u597d\u540c\u751f\u5abd\u5abd\u8b1b\u5605\u5622"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\"><strong><em>Written and Shared with Permission by Terri Rimmer<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Why don\u2019t you have another one (baby) and keep it?<br \/>You just didn\u2019t have the confidence to be a mom.<br \/>Can I take the baby?<br \/>Give me the baby.<br \/>I\u2019ll raise the baby.<br \/>I have a relative who\u2019ll take the baby.<br \/>You mean you don\u2019t want it?<br \/>So, you just don\u2019t want to keep it?<br \/>That\u2019s really cold.<br \/>You\u2019re a cold-hearted person.<br \/>So, you\u2019re just going to give it up, just like that?<br \/>Why do you care if the baby\u2019s okay? You\u2019re not keeping it?<br \/>Why\u2019d you name the baby? They\u2019re just going to rename it anyway.<br \/>I\u2019d try to get the baby back.<br \/>You can always change your mind back, right?<br \/>Why are you doing this?<br \/>Do you just not want kids?<br \/>Do you just not like kids?<br \/>You know you can sell your baby on the black market?<br \/>You can get on welfare.<br \/>You can afford it.<br \/>I\u2019m not a fan of open adoptions.<br \/>It\u2019s time to move on with your life.<br \/>You\u2019ll think about your daughter one day maybe.<br \/>That\u2019s a selfish decision.<br \/>You can make it.<br \/>I\u2019ll give the baby a good home.<br \/>Are you going to have any more kids?<br \/>You love this child. You should have another one (you shouldn\u2019t have placed her for adoption).<br \/>You should have faith in God and try to be a mom anyway.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written and Shared with Permission by Terri Rimmer Why don\u2019t you have another one (baby) and keep it?You just didn\u2019t have the confidence to be a mom.Can I take the baby?Give me the baby.I\u2019ll raise the baby.I have a relative who\u2019ll take the baby.You mean you don\u2019t want it?So, you just don\u2019t want to keep [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"give_campaign_id":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1094,1084,1116,513,1067],"tags":[127,3594,151,133,91],"class_list":["post-7090","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adoption-agency","category-adoption-services","category-birth-mother","category-birth-parent","category-spence-chapin","tag-adoption-agency","tag-adoption-service","tag-birth-mother","tag-birth-parent","tag-spence-chapin"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.1 - 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