This is a very personal choice and there are many reasons people have considered making an adoption plan for their child. Many say it\u2019s because they aren\u2019t ready or able to fully parent a child at this time, but want to choose a loving family and stay connected to their child<\/strong>. Others say they cannot provide the special care <\/strong><\/a>their child will need and want to find them a family who can. Others feel they will lose their parental rights, and would rather choose an adoptive family and maintain contact with their child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Open adoption is an ongoing relationship between the adoptive family and the birth family. You can decide what this relationship looks like \u2013 it may include visits, letters, emails, photos, and phone calls. Birth parents who have chosen open adoption say they couldn\u2019t imagine it any other way. They say that being able to choose and meet the adoptive family and maintain contact is the main reason they chose adoption. They say that being able to see their child grow up in a happy, loving family is what gives them peace of mind<\/strong>. In addition, they say they are happy their child will understand and know their birth parents and their birth story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You have the right to confidential counseling before making your decision. Every woman or couple we work with is offered FREE options counseling<\/strong><\/a> and is assigned their own social worker who is an experienced professional. They will advocate for you in making the decision that feels most right to you<\/strong>. The social worker will answer all your questions and connect you to resources, including health insurance, prenatal care, etc. We can help you fully consider all of your options and advise you on all aspects of making an adoption plan, including open adoption and your legal rights. We respect your decisions and you will never be pressured by us to make an adoption plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At Spence-Chapin, we take a lot of care in supporting and advocating for you. We are a non-profit organization with over 100 years of experience<\/strong><\/a> finding loving families for children who need them and we are here to support you throughout your journey. We believe in free, unbiased and confidential support for women and couples making this decision, which is why we have separate and robust processes for working with biological parents and adoptive parents. Our social workers are available for free, unbiased, confidential options counseling in New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut. Those we work with say they appreciate our support and did not feel pressured. In fact, the majority of expectant and biological parents who meet with Spence-Chapin find the resources and support to parent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Spence-Chapin will respect your right to confidentiality in making this decision. We take your privacy and safety<\/strong> very seriously.\u00a0If you choose closed adoption and do not want contact after adoption, Spence-Chapin will respect your rights as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Spence-Chapin has all types of prospective adoptive parents<\/strong><\/a> waiting to adopt. They vary in age, background, family structure, religion, race, etc. Some are big families, some are small. Some live in the city, some live in the suburbs. They all are eager to adopt and provide a loving family to a child<\/strong>. You will be able to meet and connect with the people you select. Adoptive parents registered with Spence-Chapin have been screened by our social workers and prepared for open adoption.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, hear biological parent perspectives on our youtube page<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dear reader,We just created a new FAQ for biological parents. Read it here first! Why should I consider adoption? This is a very personal choice and there are many reasons people have considered making an adoption plan for their child. 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